She is someone who is not afraid to give herself up completely, her body, her mind, and her soul. She displays the following qualities: She is beautiful (1 peter 3:3-5) – and yet understands that her beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of her inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful.

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She is submissive (1 peter 3:1-3) – and yet her conduct wins her husband over to believe everything she says. (1 peter 3:6) She calls her husband master and yet understands that she is not his servant. Submission to her does not mean she should give up efforts to influence and guide her husband. She is Independent (Proverbs 31: 10-28) and yet believes in synergism – A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value; she brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar, she gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. She is a teacher, a comforter and an encourager ( Titus 2:3-6) – Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God. Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled.

In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. She is coercive and yet guard against manipulation (Judges 6:15-18) Then she said to him, “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when you won’t confide in me? This is the third time you have made a fool of me and haven’t told me the secret of your great strength. ” With such nagging she prodded him day after day until he was sick to death of it.

So he told her everything. “No razor has ever been used on my head,” he said, “because I have been a Nazirite dedicated to God from my mother’s womb. If my head were shaved, my strength would leave me, and I would become as weak as any other man. ” She is a powerful influencer (Genesis 3:12) – The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it. ” But she still recognizes that she is of a weaker nature (1 peter 3- 3:7). She is her husband’s equal – and yet understand that she is subject to him, and therefore displays a plethora of respect (Genesis 3:16).

She is always vigilant for the spirit of Jezebel – Women with the spirit of Jezebel display the following: ? They gain power by destroying others. It is like an adrenalin rush when they “win” over someone. They manage to get in positions of authority, and are difficult to displace, once there. ? They are controlling, manipulative, bossy. ? They can either be war-like in their personalities, so that they are intimidating. ? So “sweet,” “perfect,” deceitful, “timid” and sneaky, they are able to fool and recruit others to join them. Sometimes they can be very charming and charismatic. ? Critical of others, vicious to the point of blood -thirsty. They are never wrong. ? They recruit others in their charges against their victims.

They act to persuade recruits, and do not give up this activity until the recruits are won over. If the potential recruits do not cooperate and buy into things, this angers them. ? They are narcissistic. While they can tend to be oversensitive themselves, they have no concern for the feelings of others. They are not sympathetic to their victims, and tend to play the role of victim themselves, in order to gain sympathy. This way the real victim is left stranded, and opposed by others if they ask for help. Being the center of attention really pleases them. They lie, and they believe their own lie.

Avoiding the truth, or intentionally acting to withhold truth is part of this. False picture is presented to others. ? Impulsive, failure to plan ahead. chaotic at times ? Lack of remorse after hurting someone. They justify the harm. ? Consistent irresponsibility. ? Irritability, aggressiveness (open, or subtle), can be quick tempered. ? Failure to conform to social norms. Person is an “outlier” or non-conformist. It is either their way or the highway. ? Psychological counseling will not help, since they deny what they are. ? They tend to control their men with sex.

And they pick passive men (Ahabs) so they can dominate them. ? Usually married. If single, could be lesbian, or promiscuous. ? They falsely accuse you, and they do NOT forgive you She is exalted and yet humbles herself (Ephesians 5:22) she submit herself to her own husband, as to the Lord, for she knows that the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

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